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Monday, January 11, 2016

Friends

 As we have been busy packing, Natalie has been spending a few morning playing with her friends. 
We will miss the many incredible, kind and 
good people we have been blessed to know over the last four years.
These two go to nursery together and love princesses! 
They enjoyed dancing to the Disney music together and when it was time to leave, Natalie was having none of it. 
It is surreal that tomorrow is my last full day in this house.
It has been good to us. Allowed our family to stretch and grow, kept up dry and warm, and been a refuge from the dark world we live in.
I am looking forward to seeing my family and Justin's more, but right now my heart is aching to be leaving our good friends. 
We still have the kitchen left to pack. Justin has been a trooper all day, packing and moving boxes down to the garage, so loading the trailer goes swiftly. 
By the end of the week we will be residents of Nyssa!
Justin and Ruth Blazzard

Saturday, January 2, 2016

Celebrate

Sometimes we drink Bubbly (Sparkling Cider) with dinner. 
Well mostly just because it was a new year. 
N felt fancy and enjoyed it.
 Some how she knew how to toast.... I think she watched too many movies. 


Justin and Ruth Blazzard

Happiness in a Wagon Ride


Trying to get baby sister to be happy after a long day that was preceded by a long night.
I think the wagon did the trick and Dada is a Genius!


We have started to pack and these two aren't getting as much attention as normal.
Thankfully Natalie was in a good mood today.
Jenna is growing and we are still learning about her and how she works.
I am hoping to figure her out one of these days.
For now, I am going to bed, so I can have the patience to care for her tomorrow. 



Justin and Ruth Blazzard

Getting Over the Bump of a Flat Spot In The Road


I have touched briefly on Jenna's head a few time on my blog, but never gave a detailed account. I feel like I won't remember the importance of this event if I don't document it now. I hope that you can see God's hand clearly in this experience over the last several months, as I have witnessed.

When we brought Jenna home from the hospital it was very common for me to find her sleeping with her head turned to the right. At her 2 week appointment the doctor pointed out that her neck was stiff on that side and that we needed to work on helping her turn her head the other way. She assured us it was not severely bad, and should resolve itself with our conscious efforts.

Each time I laid her down to sleep I properly positioned her head. Yet, each time I woke up it was turned the opposite way. I was sleep deprived, having some other health issues caused by healing from delivery and nursing, and was trying to put together a Primary Program. Many things vying for my attention brought me the attitude of , "Oh, well, I am sure it will be ok."

A few weeks shy of Jenna's two month appointment I noticed a fairly severe flat spot on Jenna's head. Again, I just tried to reassure myself, that it would be fine and told myself I would be more vigilant with positioning her. Well the 2 month appointment arrived and the doctor was impressed with how bad her head looked. She really counselled us on the repositioning and stretches she thought we should do to help her. If it didn't look better by 4 months we may have to move to Physical Therapy, and while she didn't say it, I was worried we were on the road to a helmet.

I suddenly became a dictator about the placement of her head. We rolled a blanket up behind her to keep her turning her head the opposite of the flat spot while sleeping and when she was lying on the ground everything was positioned opposite it as well. I constantly stared and worried. A couple of weeks later Justin took me and the girls to Ontario while he went to Maine. Prior to leaving he gave me a Priesthood blessing. I couldn't hear most of it because Jenna was crying, but I do remember hearing him say 2 or 3 different times listen to the Holy Ghost. I figured, "Well, I guess He has got something to tell me so I don't know what it might be."

We had been praying and I had been agonizing over her head. Now please understand, I know a helmet would not have been the end of the world, and there are more severe problems, but I did not want to have to deal with that, and I am the babies mother, so I take everything very hard and straight to my heart.

While there I threw my back out pretty bad while trying to wear Jenna in those fandangled baby carriers. I seriously tried like 4 different ones to help get her up off her head. I tried to tough it out, but after a couple of days decided I needed to see a chiropractor. Last minute I also decided to take Jenna with me. I got my back fixed and Jenna was also checked to see if she was in alignment. She wasn't so they gave her a quick click with the actuator and sent us on our way. They told me to come back if I had time before I left to have her checked again.

The following week I had a strong feeling I needed to go back and when I got there, it appeared to me they were closed. I didn't realize this until both girls were unloaded at the door of the office and I read a sign. So I loaded the girls back up and was about to leave when a man came quickly walking out. He told me that he was a chiropractor who also worked there and would be happy to see Jenna. I was a bit relieved as I didn't want to make another special trip the next day.

This Chiropractor was named Tony and he was very helpful. He checked Jenna out for the alignment of her spine, but then continued to examine her. He commented that her flat spot really was pretty bad and that she wasn't very stable for her age. Which aside from the flat spot, Jenna did have a really difficult time with tummy time and seemed to be in pain whenever she had to turn her head opposite of her favorable side. Tony offered to do some Craniosacral Therapy on her.

Some What? I just pretended to understand and shook my head yes. He gently massaged her head and then did some work inside her mouth as well. He was not certified, but had studied enough of it to do some work. He told me that while her head was pretty bad,  he had seen great results for other babies who had the same problem when they had gotten the therapy done.

He advised me to get her in for treatment from a Craniosacral Therapist. He helped me look one up on line and I thanked him and we parted ways. As I left the Holy Ghost told me this was the answer I had been looking for to help Jenna. I cried because I was frustrated with the problem, but also because I felt great peace. Just after those two appointments I saw great strides in Jenna's neck mobility and her ability to hold herself up.

Side note: A definition of Craniosacral Therapy is a system of alternative medicine intended to relieve pain and tension by gentle manipulations of the skull regarded as harmonizing with a natural rhythm in the central nervous system. Chiropractors are not the only ones certified to do this, but others such as Occupational Therapists, or Massage therapists can be as well. It is an additional certification they do on top of whatever other program they have chosen. It is even used to help babies who have a hard time nursing, or people who have major trauma to the head. Therapists massage the head along the growth plates with light pressure. Jenna was never in pain from it, but rather just laid there and enjoyed it!

I called the place we had found in Portland, but it was downtown and they charged an arm and a leg for an appointment. Not feeling that we could do that, I found a certified therapist who was also a chiropractor in Gresham. I scheduled an appointment for the following week.

On our first visit Dr. Chard started working on Jenna and did remark that the spot looked pretty severe. She had had some experience with this and was willing to go to work. We started seeing her twice a week for five weeks. After the first two appointment I saw great improvement in Jenna's head, then it took a while before I saw more improvement. Dr. Chard was also so kind to work with us on pricing and gave us a good discount since we were coming for such a long duration and so frequently.

At the end of the first five weeks, Jenna's head looked much better! I still wasn't sure what the Pediatrician would say, but I was hopeful and knew we had done the right thing for her. At the Pediatrician office, the doctor commented on how good her head looked, that she would not need a helmet, and wanted to know what we had been doing.

That was a huge relief and weight off my shoulders! We have continued to meet with Dr. Chard. We first cut it back to weekly, then every two weeks, and this last week we had our last appointment as we will be moving.

I know that this medicine of Craniosacral Therapy is what helped Jenna's head improve so quickly and helped her gain better stability and mobility in her neck. I know I was guided by the Holy Ghost to find out about this way to help her. I am so grateful for health professionals. Dr. Chard was great at her work, but it was wonderful to get to know her as an individual as well. She really helped me be calm about the situation and was fun and easy to talk to. We will miss seeing her, but are glad we have a couple of great chiropractors where we are moving to!

Justin and Ruth Blazzard

2015 By Months

January- Kicked off the year with Justin being gone frequently for work. This earned him enough points for us to go and enjoy a one night stay at the ocean. It was one of the few family vacations we have ever taken other than to visit family, and it was simply delightful.

February- Found out we were having another little girl. The ultra sound technician told Justin to get a male dog and a cigar to smoke in the garage because that was the closest thing he was getting to a boy this year. Haha! We were so excited to be having another girl and for Natalie to have a sister!

Natalie and I also traveled to my hometown to wish my basketball coaches well wishes as they retired from coaching.

March- Natalie turned 2! It was hard to believe. We had a small birthday party with dear family friends and she got many gifts that fit her perfectly. Justin continued to travel a lot. Many trips up to Canada!

April- We enjoyed spending Easter with a best friend from College, Amy Petersen (now Fullmer). She flew up from Utah to check out the Pacific Northwest. We really enjoyed some good library books during this time and introduced Natalie to potty training! She still enjoys a good book while sitting in the bathroom. Natalie and I made an impromptu trip to Ontario because my grandma was having some serious health struggles. We stayed for a week and visited with her, tried to help out as much as we could, and played with cousins.

May- Natalie got her first hair cut! The Primary did a visit to the Temple Visitor Center as our activity for the year. Justin got home from traveling, just in time for us to visit Ontario for a Memorial Day celebration. My family always does a big picnic along with decorating graves. It was a sunny windy day, but the food was delicious and we spent a lot of time with family. We did a lot of dry pack canning while at my mom's that weekend as well. Sadly, Grandma Corn had not recovered well from earlier this year and was steadily declining in her health. Natalie spent alot of time playing with her cousins and enjoyed going in the swimming pool at Annie's house.

June- Holy smokes it was one hot month! Thank goodness I was only 8 months pregnant... hahaha. We tried to keep a normal routine, stay cool and wait for baby girl to make her debut. I was very tired this month and did not feel real well. Thankfully Justin was close to home most nights. My Grandma Corn passed away at the very end of the month. We were sad to see her go, but were glad that her suffering was eased. We will see her again someday.

July- The 6th was Grandma Corn's funeral which I watched via FaceTime. (Technology is amazing!) Then 3 days later Jenna Ruth was born on July 9th! She came into the world a dark haired feisty beautiful girl. That pretty much sums up the rest of the year, haha. No, she is a sweet girl, but it has been a challenge adjusting to two young children.

August- Adjusting to a new baby and we blessed Jenna Ruth. Justin's parents and grandparents made the long trek up here, along with my parents, and younger brother and sister came. It was a precious day and I was grateful for the family support.

September- Our Presidencies First Primary Program happened. It went well! At the end of it we traveled to Ontario while Justin traveled to Maine for 2 weeks. Little did we know this trip would cause us to be moving in a short time.

October- Halloween- Natalie was a darling Cinderella and Jenna made a cute pumpkin. We did a lot with our Ward Harvest Party. We also really enjoyed General Conference, and Justin had a busy month with returning from Maine and traveling to Canada back to back weeks.

November- Flew to Utah for Thanksgiving! It was a fun trip and great to see all of the family. We made the decision we would accept the job in Eastern Oregon and would be moving. We also watched with sadness the state of the Refugee Crisis in Europe. This especially made us focus on our many blessing and privileges living in the United States.

December- Flew by! We celebrated our 4th and last Christmas in the Pacific Northwest. Put our house up for sale and sold it a week later. Enjoyed spending time with the many dear friends we have made over the past 4 years. Justin and I celebrated 7 years of marriage and we counted our many, many blessings in life.

It was an intense year for us. Many lessons in tenacity, praying, answered prayers, patience, and trusting in the Lord with all our might. He has a beautiful story for our life that I feel is refining us each day and has helped our family be stronger. We said goodbye to 2015 by keeping 2 little children up far late than they should be, but we look forward to 2016 and the things we will learn and the joy we will get to experience. Happy New Year to All!


Justin and Ruth Blazzard