We have the power to....

I got barked at the other day by an older gentleman. I went with the missionaries for our church to visit a lady. It was freezing cold and I was in a hurry. I pulled up to the curb and thought I had pulled past the mailbox stationed on the curb close to me. I didn't check it though and just headed into the house. Forty five minutes later we emerged. I went to my car and began the process of strapping Natalie in to her car seat with her big puffy purple coat. I suddenly hear a very gruff voice asking me to not ever block his mailbox again if I come back. 

I looked out and quickly apologized and said I would be pulling forward. It seemed to fuel his anger. He gave me a few more short sentences with stern looks and a voice dripping with irritation. Again I apologized and quickly left.

I really felt terrible about this. I had not set out today to inconvenience anyone, but it happened because I am human and didn't realize the impact that split decision would have. 

I have also been greatly blessed by the kind actions of strangers the last couple of days. At two different stores I had individuals offer to take my cart back so I could take care of Natalie. While checking out at Joann's today I was taking longer than I should have because of having to search the diaper bag for an item I needed to return. When I glanced behind me to the growing line, an old lady greeted me with a smile and said that I was no problem. I actually made her feel better because she often forgets things as well. We exchanged a laugh and I left. Her patience, humor and warm smile brightened my day immensely and made me feel of worth.

As I pondered my different experiences the over those 48 hours, my reflections brought clarity to many truths I already know but continue to refine with experience.

1. Be kind to strangers! Your words and actions impact others for better or worse whether you know that person or not.

2. Be conscious of your decisions and way you choose to do or say things. They can cause frustration, more work and hurt feelings for others.

3. Realize that very rarely do people intentionally do things to hurt or inconvenience others. Most often they simply don't realize they have wronged you.

We are all imperfect beings with great power. I want to be more conscious of being kind and help leave a person with a better day than they already have.